Why does my husband find me more attractive (10 points)?

my husband and i are 27 have been married for 2 years. last year i was thin and went to the gym a few times a week and my husband and i had a good sex life and cuddled often. now i got a promotion at my job and i have been working more, so i guess i havent been able to work out and started eating more and i guess "let myself go" so i have gained some weight in the past year. so now im chubby. you would think he would be less attracted to me but he seems more into me and its like he cant keep his hands off of me. all he wants to do is cuddle and we have sex WAY more often than when i was thin .when we hug and kiss he likes to grab onto my rolls or love handles. like yesterday when he got back from work (he is a sports writer btw) we hugged and kissed and he put his arms around me and started squeezing and grabbing my fat. at first i felt really uncomfortable with him touching me, but after awile i was ok with it. i do have bigger breasts, a bigger butt, and i a much more curvy figure now, so maybe thats why he is more attracted to me. i would get it is was chubby before and lost weight and then was more attracted to me, but i dont get it with this scenario. i know im his wife and he will always love me but you can love something and not be attracted to it like after my older sister had her baby she had gained 40 pounds because of her pregnancy and she told me that recently her husband could not even look at her :(. if it helps answer the question he is a big guy and has been oveweight since the day i met him

Are you a Dragon Ball Z fan?

if so? why do people think it's a kids show? it had a lot of blood and gore,intense fighting,sexual humor,alcohol,swearing from time to time...just because a lot of kids grew up with it doesnt mean its a kids show...it was actually meant for teenage boy,and in japan its actually rated r which i cant stand because of the awful and unfitting voices and music....

Custody/Visitation rights for fathers in California.?

My boyfriend is going through a custody battle at the moment, so far him and the mother of his child are agreeing on everything except whether or not I can be around his son. I know that whatever is going to happen is going to be in the "best interest" of the child. Well the mother of his son wants to argue that I am an unfit adult who just likes to party and drink, he knows better. I have a two year old of my own who I have physical custody of and joint legal custody. My question here is how much is she able to get away with? Seeing as that she really has no evidence that I am a bad person. I have no records of violence, alcohol or drug abuse. I support my daughter and myself on my own. Let me state that I am 21 and my boyfriend is 25, we have been together for a year and this last year has been great with him but hell with her because of her constant drama. We are making future plans together so I know that eventually I will be around his child, I just want to get a take on what could happen with his case. I have respected the mother of his child's decision for me not to be around their child thus far, but now my boyfriend and I have discussed that it was time for us to meet. So I'm now curious to see what is going to happen with this situation. They have temporary custody for a month I will not be allowed around their son but their next mediation they will discuss what will happen. What can I expect from here on out? With the judge and mediation?

I'm really short and gained weight... I look chubby!! :(?

heeeey since im a short girl when i gain even the littlest amount of weight i look FAT AS FUUUUUUCK :( it makes me want to go mental. all i want to do is lose 6 lbs but i cant seem to! the fat doesnt go away but the numbers on the scale shrink. I NEED TO LOSE *FAT* :( im 5 foot bro.

Would 100 cigarettes effect you?

I am 16, i havnt smoked in 2 years, i smoked for about one year at about 5 a day, i stopped because here in ireland they are 8 euro 65 c a 20 packet, thats about 12 dollars,i never gt sick off them and lots of my relatives smoke, they all have a bad cough and are very unfit, but none of them ever got any major illness. I'm going to germany in 3 weeks and im staying there for 2 months without my parents, im staying with my uncle and cigarettes over there are very cheap and because he is on the austria border i can go over and buy them because its 16 to smoke there, i was thinking of just smoking about 3 or 4 a day for the time i am there, i like sitting outside in the evening and smoking, i like the taste and the smell of it, now i dont want to smoke when im older because it looks low life and i want to be healthy, but would there be any harm in just smoking say a 100 of them and never to do it again, like im not going to be addicted after 8 weeks, i smoked for a year before and i wasnt in the slightest wat addicted, so would it be ok to smoke for 8 weeks without feeling guilty.

What is " Del Ritico " ?

A misspelling(?) of "Il Ritiro" which means "withdrawal" according to Google Translate. Not sure what it means in this musical setting.

Pain in my fingers from practicing too much violin?

Try taking longer breaks and stretching everything out while you are resting (this is just a good idea in general, so you don't get overuse injuries), make sure you aren't clenching the bow (are there new bow techniques in this piece that you don't normally use?) and ask your teacher if he/she notices you doing anything odd with your bowgrip on the Viotti, make sure the leather grip on your bow isn't wearing (maybe you are getting too much pressure somewhere, could it be a nerve thing?), could always see a hand specialist, but I would try that last. My guess is that you are either tired, or are getting a little stiff on a difficult section without realizing it...it doesn't always take much. Try relaxing your left hand more too...usually what one hand does, the other does as well.