Why does my husband find me more attractive (10 points)?

my husband and i are 27 have been married for 2 years. last year i was thin and went to the gym a few times a week and my husband and i had a good sex life and cuddled often. now i got a promotion at my job and i have been working more, so i guess i havent been able to work out and started eating more and i guess "let myself go" so i have gained some weight in the past year. so now im chubby. you would think he would be less attracted to me but he seems more into me and its like he cant keep his hands off of me. all he wants to do is cuddle and we have sex WAY more often than when i was thin .when we hug and kiss he likes to grab onto my rolls or love handles. like yesterday when he got back from work (he is a sports writer btw) we hugged and kissed and he put his arms around me and started squeezing and grabbing my fat. at first i felt really uncomfortable with him touching me, but after awile i was ok with it. i do have bigger breasts, a bigger butt, and i a much more curvy figure now, so maybe thats why he is more attracted to me. i would get it is was chubby before and lost weight and then was more attracted to me, but i dont get it with this scenario. i know im his wife and he will always love me but you can love something and not be attracted to it like after my older sister had her baby she had gained 40 pounds because of her pregnancy and she told me that recently her husband could not even look at her :(. if it helps answer the question he is a big guy and has been oveweight since the day i met him

Are you a Dragon Ball Z fan?

if so? why do people think it's a kids show? it had a lot of blood and gore,intense fighting,sexual humor,alcohol,swearing from time to time...just because a lot of kids grew up with it doesnt mean its a kids show...it was actually meant for teenage boy,and in japan its actually rated r which i cant stand because of the awful and unfitting voices and music....

Custody/Visitation rights for fathers in California.?

My boyfriend is going through a custody battle at the moment, so far him and the mother of his child are agreeing on everything except whether or not I can be around his son. I know that whatever is going to happen is going to be in the "best interest" of the child. Well the mother of his son wants to argue that I am an unfit adult who just likes to party and drink, he knows better. I have a two year old of my own who I have physical custody of and joint legal custody. My question here is how much is she able to get away with? Seeing as that she really has no evidence that I am a bad person. I have no records of violence, alcohol or drug abuse. I support my daughter and myself on my own. Let me state that I am 21 and my boyfriend is 25, we have been together for a year and this last year has been great with him but hell with her because of her constant drama. We are making future plans together so I know that eventually I will be around his child, I just want to get a take on what could happen with his case. I have respected the mother of his child's decision for me not to be around their child thus far, but now my boyfriend and I have discussed that it was time for us to meet. So I'm now curious to see what is going to happen with this situation. They have temporary custody for a month I will not be allowed around their son but their next mediation they will discuss what will happen. What can I expect from here on out? With the judge and mediation?

I'm really short and gained weight... I look chubby!! :(?

heeeey since im a short girl when i gain even the littlest amount of weight i look FAT AS FUUUUUUCK :( it makes me want to go mental. all i want to do is lose 6 lbs but i cant seem to! the fat doesnt go away but the numbers on the scale shrink. I NEED TO LOSE *FAT* :( im 5 foot bro.

Would 100 cigarettes effect you?

I am 16, i havnt smoked in 2 years, i smoked for about one year at about 5 a day, i stopped because here in ireland they are 8 euro 65 c a 20 packet, thats about 12 dollars,i never gt sick off them and lots of my relatives smoke, they all have a bad cough and are very unfit, but none of them ever got any major illness. I'm going to germany in 3 weeks and im staying there for 2 months without my parents, im staying with my uncle and cigarettes over there are very cheap and because he is on the austria border i can go over and buy them because its 16 to smoke there, i was thinking of just smoking about 3 or 4 a day for the time i am there, i like sitting outside in the evening and smoking, i like the taste and the smell of it, now i dont want to smoke when im older because it looks low life and i want to be healthy, but would there be any harm in just smoking say a 100 of them and never to do it again, like im not going to be addicted after 8 weeks, i smoked for a year before and i wasnt in the slightest wat addicted, so would it be ok to smoke for 8 weeks without feeling guilty.

What is " Del Ritico " ?

A misspelling(?) of "Il Ritiro" which means "withdrawal" according to Google Translate. Not sure what it means in this musical setting.

Pain in my fingers from practicing too much violin?

Try taking longer breaks and stretching everything out while you are resting (this is just a good idea in general, so you don't get overuse injuries), make sure you aren't clenching the bow (are there new bow techniques in this piece that you don't normally use?) and ask your teacher if he/she notices you doing anything odd with your bowgrip on the Viotti, make sure the leather grip on your bow isn't wearing (maybe you are getting too much pressure somewhere, could it be a nerve thing?), could always see a hand specialist, but I would try that last. My guess is that you are either tired, or are getting a little stiff on a difficult section without realizing it...it doesn't always take much. Try relaxing your left hand more too...usually what one hand does, the other does as well.

Wanting to get grandaughter out of unfit parents home?

My granddaughter is currently living with her mother and step-father. She has a very rare health disorder that causes her not to be able to go to school, so she does it online. She got in trouble a lot during her first year of high school by getting behind in her school work often which was mostly caused by her health and her mother needing her to go help her clean houses (her mothers buisness) during the day and now her mother makes her go with her during the day every day and forces my grandaughter to do her school work at late hours (sometimes even after 7 at night). She also verbally abuses her by calling her a fat cow (my grandaughter weighs barely over 100 pounds at 16 years old), a *****, a worthless daughter and a dissappointment (because she cant get her school work done on time most of the time). They have also intentionally hurt her and smacked her a few times over the years. My grandaughter if never allowed out with friends or to family houses. She has a boyfriend who she spends maybe 6 hours a month with. She cries all the time and is very depressed. Her father is a alcholic and not the best place for her to go. We all love her very much and want to get her out of that enviroment. I am more than willing to take her in, we have a extra bedroom and the means to take care of her but, we are worried because my daughter has said more than once that if my grandaughter ever called social services or tried to leave she would beat her till she couldnt walk. I want her to be safe but im worried about her so much. Is there anything I can do?

How fit do you consider yourself?

6. You know I gotta get my GTL in for all the ladies when we go clubbing. My dance moves make everyone else look like droopy eyed armless children. Winning

I am doing a presentation on liszt?

Hugarian Rhapsody no 2 is probably the most known since it shows up in cartoons a lot. Other than the ones you have listed, I would say "Sonetto del Petracha 104" is also a good one.

What else can i play that is similar to the elgar cello concerto?

i have an audition in a few months and i need two contrasting pieces. i will be performing the haydn cello concerto and i was thinking about performing the 1st movement of the elgar cello concerto as my other piece because i love the piece and i've heard j. du pre play it trillions of times. i bought the sheet music, but after one day i've already played through the entire movement perfectly with good intonation and expression and of course i could play it better if i practiced it more but im not sure if i should keep it for my audition in a few months. im not considering the 2nd movement (kind of hard and i want something more emotional), the 3rd (too boring without the 2nd movement) or the 4th (overdone). i would like to play something similar to the elgar that is very emotional but more difficult. I was considering the granados intermezzo, but please give any suggestions

Am I fat?? Honest opinions but be polite please!!?

I'm 14, 5"7, a girl and I weigh 126lb. A lot of people have been telling me that I'm fat recently but when I asked my mum she said I was 'fine'. Does this mean that she secretly thinks I'm fat? My best friend says I'm not fat and my dad thinks I'm too chubby. Who to believe ?!??!!

Michael Cole is Anti-Jesus?

They do deserve bags over their heads to stop them spreading their rubbish to non believers like me who dont want to hear the preachy crap that comes out their mouth. So I see where Cole would be coming from.

Does anyone know of any good Asian Dramas...?

Hmm...Check out http://asianmoviescentral.blogspot.com ive soon some good ones there and whoever owns it is still adding more everyday.

Is violin concertos by Joachim musically worth to play?

Joachim was an excellent violinist and composer, and at least in the 19th century had a similarly commanding standing as Beethoven or Brahms. Although his star has gradually faded, I think in part because he didn't produce many compositions. His second violin concerto is the most played of his works and is a piece that nearly every violinist will know.

Seriously .. is it haraam or sinning to be fat/overweight/chubby ?

Allah Almighty tells us that He has provided us with abundance and to enjoy the life He has given us. He also teaches us moderation in all things. You might want to consider dieting, but it could be your genes. Being a little on the heavy side (or a lot) is not haram. Just eat many small portion. So long as the portions are small, you will not gain weight. If you start walking daily, you may lose some.

If you're 10 to 15 pounds overweight before getting pregnant, when will you start showing?

I'm NOT fat, I'm average, my tummy is a little chubby, not fat though so when will I show? I'm probably 11 weeeks

PLEASE HELP MY 4 INCH GOLDFISH?

I have a goldfish in a 15 gallon tank with 1 guppy 1 puffer fish 2 fish that are small and kinda chubby that are black ad white and 3 tiny little yellow ones that just eat off of what ever touches the bottom. My gold fish is 4 inches long and is suddenly missing a lot of scales and is bleeding around his fins tales and tummy area!! I heard puffer fishes can hurt gold fishes but the start by chewing off the tale. His tale isn't chewed off. But now the tiny other fishes are eating off him :( I know this is stupid bc it's a fish but he's my only pet and has lasted 4 years I got him at a fair and wasn't even an inch when I got him. I separated him so now he's alone in a tank and I have been feeding all of the fish.... Oh and this started when I got the puffer fish and the 2 chubby white and black ones!!!! Please please please help what do I do is there something I can do?

Exercise help please!?

I am a 19 year old female and I need help with some exercises for strengthening and losing weight from my thighs. I'm not over weight and I'm a fairly small person overall but my thighs are a bit chubby and I've always been really weak in the legs, which is really starting to bother me. I don't have access to a gym or any where to go for runs so if anyone can give me any ideas for leg exercises that don't require any equipment or leaving the house it would be much appreciated :)

What Baroque genres are each Classical genre most related to?

One is sinfonia, and one is concerto grosso. Do not know why I cannot remember the other two, I just finished that history course.

Violin solo piece with string orchestra?

Any of the Vivaldi seasons would work well for a string/chamber orchestra. If the orchestra is really good, this will sounds awesome...and even if the orchestra is less advanced, they will still be able to handle it (although the key signature in Autumn may be a problem for less advanced groups).

Why does this person love his nephew but doesn't want his real son?

He's still freaking out and wants out of the situation. he just needs someone to hit him "upside the head" and tell him to grow up.

MOST HELPFUL ANSWER 10 POINTS. How do i subpeona someone's police criminal record in QLD?

i AM GOING 2 FAMILY COURT NXT MONTH IN qld. Does anyone know the process to subpeona my ex partners criminal history and what forms do i need to do this? It is very urgent as he is unfit and i cant trust him to have the children as he is very unstable but i need the evidence to support this with his criminal history.

Placer concerto Ashley dificil nombre can someone please translate this to English for me ty?

it seems like its spanish but it doesnt have any syntax or coherence is like putting words in any order its sounds as bad as pleasure concert ashley hard name

Catholics, why does God think I'm unfit to be a priest?

There is no need of human priests, Jesus is the perfect priest. Neither man nor women is a real priest.

For a very serious pianist to answer?

I'm fourteen years old, and a pianist. I have been invited by Leon Fleisher to perform for him in Baltimore. This is in July. He asked that I bring a Beethoven Sonata as well as whatever other repertoire I see fit (I've performed Tchaik concerto 1 and Goldberg Variations this year, as as about three hours of other repertoire) For the Beethoven Sonata, I'm considering no. 15 in D major the Pastoral, op. 10 no. 3 no. 7 in D major, or op. 27 no. 1 no. 13. If you know these works, please give me an opinion! I played the Waldstein this year but I don't think that kind of piece is right. Thanks!!!

I want to get my life back on track but for some reason I don't want to.?

I have exams next week, really important, deciding factor for me getting a scholarship of �3000 and potentially a place at medical school but for some reason I dont feel like looking at my books. I'm also very unhealthy and unfit, just like watching TV instead and eat lots of ice cream. I can see the benefits of making a start to get something out of my life but then I easily give up, in the past I have made several efforts each time I make a start such as exercising, eating healthy and studying I give up after a few weeks really easily and then put weight on again and my hard work seems to go to waste and then in the future I become more and more reluctant to start again as I don't see the benefits. Does anyone have any motivation tips for me? I would really appreciate your help.

A good asian drama suggestion?

Hmm..For the funny type, you can try watching rainie yang - Drunken to Love You..It is still airing in Taiwan.

Korean drama recommendations please?:)?

try City Hunter. Lee Min Ho is the leading actor. Was recently out on May 25. watch it on mysoju.com for episode 1 ;)

Do i have a legit child custody of proving the mom unfit?

I think you have a pretty good case, especially if she abandoned the child at your house just because "she can't deal with this"

Ladies, would you ever date a chubby guy?

Atticus, what you need to realize is that REGARDLESS of your size, there are literally MILLIONS of beautiful girls out there RIGHT NOW who would love to get to know you. See, the most important relationship you will ever have in life is not to some girl, but to YOURSELF. What you need to understand is that women can't make you happy. No one can. Only you can do that for yourself. And you also need to understand that life really is very much like a mirror. See, however you feel and believe about yourself will be reflected back to you in your life experiences. If you believe that you are cool, funny, attractive or whatever, then so will others. And i'm pretty sure you've got a few of those qualities now. So don't beat yourself up or feel like a loser. It's not worth it. All you need to do is cultivate self-love, and you will find that others will love you just as much. Besides, you should never let the opinions of others affect you in any way. Feeling good when people like you, and feeling bad when they don't is no way to live your life. Just be the cool dude you already are, have fun for YOURSELF, remember that NO ONE can make you happy, and you will be fine. Besides dude, PLENTY of chicks go for bigger men. I see it everyday. Heck, i've lived it. I used to be very chubby in high school, but that never stopped me from dating and seeing lots and lots of beautiful women. It all comes down to what you feel and believe about yourself. Believe the best, and you will find that you will get the best. I know it sounds crazy, but it's true. Regardless of what's going on in life, choose to see it through a positive mindset, and you will get positivity in return. You're gonna be find. Good luck to you!

Was this a fat stage? Is it normal?

that's pretty light, but no you weren't fat at all. And yeah your metabolism may have sped up as well

Viola NYSSMA Solo Tips?

Hi. Im playing in the NYSSMA solo festival on Saturday. I am playing Concerto No. 5, First Movement by F. Seitz for viola.(Level 3) I was just wondering if anyone had any tips on my solo, scales, or sight reading. Also, I was wondering if you know any good pieces to help me prepare for the sight reading part. Thanks!

Good korean or taiwanese dramas?

i didnt watch Autumn's Concerto but if u want a drama where love triangle doesn't take up the whole storyline with happy ending then u must watch Time Between Dog and Wolf , Smile You or 49 days(its ongoing but i know it has a happy ending!)

How to get a flat stomach?

I'm not chubby or anything, I'm skinny but my stomach is uneven like it gets a tad bigger at the lower part. So I don't want to lose any weight (trying to gain) but also want my stomach to be even and flat, but again not losing any weight. What should I do?

First time at the gym in 10 years due to injury - advice?

it would be best to use the elastic bands for a week or two just to ensure everythings alright and so that you dont strain the muscle. lunges with no dumbbells/light dumbbells isnt a bad idea. ultimately it just comes down to right nutrition so that your body operates properly and keeping things slow. as a personal trainer i would place my clients on the eliptical machines with low resistance to promote general growth throughout the leg muscles as well. hope this helps. if the pain comes back, i recommend checking with your doctor if you can. if not, slow it down some more and at all cost dont just 'tough out' pain, especially if it gets progressively worse.

Do you think this guy liked me or something?

So I was at my friends church for a youth group meeting and we were watching a movie. My friend and I were sitting in the back and this one kid was sitting a little to the right of me and up a bit. The ENTIRE time he kept looking (or staring) with this blank expression on his face. Every time I caught him looking at me him look away though. Then one minute we locked eyes for a few seconds but then I looked away. I'm pretty average big blue eyes, medium length brown hair, I'm a little chubby like 155 lbs 5'7. This guy that was looking at me was the really hot jock kind of guy that I would never think would like me. But what do you think by his actions? Thanks! :)

Strengthen my back? Stomach muscles?

Core exercises are a good idea (e.g. crunches, plank, sit-ups etc.) Rowing is a good sport to build up your core muscles (stomach muscles) and is fun+sociable as well! It takes time but it will help you in the long run :)

Should I be upset with her?

Me & my mom were talking. I was telling her about how one of my friends auditioned for modeling and acting career & she got accepted. Not to be mean but she's a bit chubby.... to be a model. Then my mom blurts out "I got calls when you were younger from people asking if you could be used for modeling".. Of course after that I was like WTF & you didn't accept??! Her excuse was " Well I didn't want anything big to come out of it. Like you're a great singer and I didn't want you to become a child star. You needed a normal childhood" I am not one of those girls who go around talking about how ugly I am because I don't think I'm ugly and I think girls who do that either have problems or just want attention. Back to what I was saying. I could have been somebody more than I am today but it's my mom's fault I'm not because she rejected! Should I be upset? Would you be upset?

I'm 14 fat and unfit with moobs.?

I was never fat but my dad passed and I used to lift weights and bike with him but over the years I have put on weight and got fat. I am 14 about 5ft 7' and I weigh in around 13 stone, Its not obvious I am that fat but my moobs are rather large. I have tried push ups but I can't do one :( I have keep below the knee flat to the ground and I am doing this daily and cutting down on sugary foods, I eat when I am hungry and 3 times a day. I walk home from school with friend which google says is a mile and some, I have no weights and I am to young to go to the gym I don't like swimming because of my weight. What else can I do to lose the weight I do have rather large thighs and I am a 32-34 waist. PLEASE HELP! :(

What is the name of this Mozart Piano Concerto?

It isn't a concerto by Mozart. It might be a keyboard piece by him but definitely not one of his piano concertos. I have all of his piano concertos on CD and I do not recognize this music. Plus, a concerto is scored for keyboard and orchestra.

Just wondering how exactly does?

Gibbs for me...he was slightly more consistent and played more match-winning innings, especially in ODI's. Astle was a fine player too though and i'll always remember his fastest-ever double hundred against England.

What rights do absent fathers have if proven unfit?

They have the right to visitation. That is a constitutional right and is almost never taken away completely.

I am a teen mom and having a dispute with her father?

have him request dna testing through the court ... if it is his child, he will have to pay for the testing and he will have to pay child support or he gets too much behind, spend time in jail. good luck with everything

AM I FLABBY OR CHUBBY?

Fatassss! U have litle handles in your side i can grab and ur mid stomach looks like playdoh its so fat and ur sucking in which still makes u fat lose weight please

Is this a good way to be a future parent?

Hi, I'm a guy who isn't married yet or have a child. I was wondering if I should just raise my kids without giving them any toys or spoil them with anything in their younger years so they will be grateful for what they have. I will never yell at them, insult them or physically punish them. I will want to focus a lot on their education and become really smart(not by learning a lot of knowledge but by being creative). I will also let them exercise and play a lot of sports so they don't become full blown unfit nerds. I won't let them watch television too much. I will let them socialize but also make it clear that they have to stop participating in certain activities when I tell them to(or give them the initiative to) . Overall, I don't want them to make the same mistakes I made(being lazy), or even make the mistakes that most modern kids/teenagers make.

Which Mozart Piano Concerto should I learn?

I've been listening to bits of all of them, but I can't decide. Some suggestions? Please don't just say numbers...I'd like a little info too.

Mozart piano concerto for playalong? (i play the piano with a cd playing the orchestra)?

Music Minus One has been around for many years. You can also get SmartMusic - but that requires a subscription thru your computer. The advantage is, SmartMusic will follow you - with a CD, you follow IT.

Did this guy like me or something?

So I was at my friends church for a youth group meeting and we were watching a movie. My friend and I were sitting in the back and this one kid was sitting a little to the right of me and up a bit. The ENTIRE time he kept looking (or staring) with this blank expression on his face. Every time I caught him looking at me him look away though. Then one minute we locked eyes for a few seconds but then I looked away. I'm pretty average big blue eyes, medium length brown hair, I'm a little chubby like 155 lbs 5'7. This guy that was looking at me was the really hot jock kind of guy that I would never think would like me. But what do you think by his actions? Thanks! :)

Is thinking of 'All dogs as Pets' causing an overall lacking in the quality of working dogs bred in america?

You are going to get some very intelligent answers (I am not one of them) but I think you are certainly on the right track & a pack of Maltese in front of the hunt searching for foxes has given me a picture in my head & I can't stop giggling........

Should I watch korean, taiwanese, or japanese dramas?

Those are great Asian dramas and I watched some of theme too. I think you should watch more Japanese dramas since you only have a little bit of Japanese compared to your Korean and Thai drama.

Gorgeous girl walks by work everyday....?

Aww this is super cute(: but anywayss, you say she walks by your job everyday well around that time clean the windows or something outside 7 while she walks by say hey ! talk a little, then ask her out to lunch. goodluck

Why do I see more race mixing here in Texas than I ever did in Illinois?

Is the anti-south ranting just a long winded propaganda campaign by jealous northerners who're unfit for today's new world?

What is the most obnoxious, ostentatious, ridiculously pompous violin solo that you know?

If you want something really over-played, cliche, obnoxious and pompous --- I'd vote for Rimsky-Korsakov's "Flight of the Bumblebee" and of course play it as frantically and over-tempo as you possibly can. Make sure the bow hair is flying by the end of the piece. Make lots of exaggerated body movements and dramatic facial expressions while playing. You might even want to play part of it between your legs or behind your back. This is one of those pieces of music that entertains TV potatoes watching "America's Got Talent" and similar... perfect for a quasi "classical favorites" "seen on TV" infomercial kind of collection. Good luck !

Why the size difference?

At 17..I weighed 136 lbs..I was 5''5, I was quiet chubby back then but now at 21, still the same height but I'm 135 lbs and I don't look as big as I looked when I was 17 and the same weight.

Bullies.. what happens when you see them years later?

First, did it seem like he changed for that better? Like he wasn't condescending anymore? If he changed for the better, maybe that's why he's happy. Secondly, I don't recall meeting any of my bullies but I am confident they are not happier than me. :) Why? I have a beautiful family and home and most of all I am saved...the true test is your entire life. Jesus is the way to eternal life.

Will pilates help me lose weight?

So I'm 17 and a little chubby, I'm not fat or anything, I have a little flab on my stomach and bigger thighs but I'm not really fat or anything. I heard pilots really helps flatten your stomach is it true? Because I've tried it and really felt the burn but I'm worried it will only build the muscle and not burn the fat, which would basically do no good. Suggestions?

I can not stay on a diet?

i eat like crazy like you think you can eat not like me im literally always hungry like take this for example this is what i just ate for diner not all day just dinner Chinese food 6 burritos a bag of chips oh and a whole plate of brownies a Arizona tea and some coconut juice but i don't really get it im not fat but im not skinny im 5 feet and weigh 120 pounds but i don't really have a chubby stomach i have pretty chubby thighs though like the way i eat people say i should be obese so like are there any tips to stay on a diet and not eat as much because i heard its unhealthy

What free program would be good for transposing?

Lets say I want to transpose the Elgar cello concerto in e minor from bass clef to alto clef. What should I use?

Which violin concerto should i play next?

Well the Bruch is kind of a classic. Every violinist ends up playing it eventually. I wouldn't use it as an audition piece though. There's always a bunch of people who play that. The Saint-Saens is nice too though. To be honest I haven't heard of the other two. They're all in minor keys though. You sure you don't want to mix it up with a major piece?

Father's rights regarding adoption?

What are a father's rights if a mother decides to put a child up for adoption at birth? Is the father able to keep the child even if he is unfit to raise a child? Additionally, is it required that the father be named in order to proceed with adoption?

How to lose my "love handles" and look good in a bikini? (;?

I was wondering what I should do to lose my "love handles" and chubby places like my belly and my thighs? I weigh 140lbs, I use to be 125lb.. ): I am 5'3". I'm always home all day and I have no way to go to the gym because my husband takes the car to work. Plus I just moved to a new state and don't really know anything around here, its a big city.

I NEED SOME HELP ABOUT MY WEIGHT?

I understand. I weigh 200 pounds at 5'8 but do not look as overweight as that may seems. Truth is, you do physically have the fat, but its distributed in a flattering way on your body, lik mine. Soy cubano, so i got a big *** too ;) be proud, guys love it

If my friend has unfit parents, could i adopt her?

It's not even funny how fast a court would shut you down. What do you know? You're 18 lol. Have zero kid experience, no house and work for McDonolds. If she needs new parents then they would come from family (grandparents/aunts and uncles) or, someone elses parents. How are your parents?

Can anyone give me a list of the hardest violin concertos ever to be played along with their composers?

what are the hardest violin concertos that even amateurs who are prodigies, and those who are professionals find hard to get.

Can A Fat Girl Do A Toe Touch Or Hurkey?

Welll I Want To Be A Chearleader But, Im Chuby Nd I Have To Learn Howw To Do Thiss.. But If A Chubby Girll Cant Do It Then Why Tryy..

Can CPS take my child from me for having panic attacks?

I've been seeing a doctor for 3 months now and she recomended counseling so I called a place called family outreach and their main goal is to stop abuse in families but the also have counseling for what I'm going through. They have one on one /couples/ fam counceling etc. I also read on their web site that they try to keep families from having a CPS case. I'm just scared that they will see as unfit mom when I'm still capable of being a good one. I just want to get back to normal. I really hope me trying to get help doesn't backfire on my family

Wanting to go the gym.??? Any tips?

Hi.When you join,you could ask the person to show you around or ask if there is another employer near by that can at least.I am sure they would be more then willing to do so!

I hate the way I look.?

Im a sophomore guy in high school. I'm like 5-11 and around 150 pounds. I'm really active and play a lot of sports and go running a lot but Im still not thin like my friends. I'm still a little chubby even though I run and do sit-ups and pushups a ton. How can I get thin? And I just dont feel good about my face, its kind of round with big cheeks and a little curly hair. How can I gain confidence?

Why do i keep getting pains in my chest?

well for the past couple of weeks i have been having pains on both sides of my chest and i also get palpitations now the palpitations dont happen all the time only sometime when i have been in bed for about an hour at night they start and sometime in the day.. im about 5ft and i am a petite 18year old but i do no exercise what so ever the most exercise i do is walking up and down the staires and around the house..and have done for the last 3 years.. could this be why i am having chest pain.. am i very unfit or should i consult my gp about them?? thanks if you can help

My faimly is screwed up?

I Think . . This May Sound Really Chessey But You Should Pray Everynight (: God Does Some Pretty Amazing Things <3 Also You Should Tell Your Mom You Want To Have A Family Confrence Night With Everyone & Just Talk To Them But Don't Argue They Are Your Family Show Them You Love And care About Them . Crying Is Not Bad Soo Don't Try An Stop Your Tears In Front Of Them Keep Your Head Up And Believe <33

I'm a really fussy eater, I feel so unhealthy, what can I do?

I've always been a fussy eater. I don't like the textures of food, eg sauces, curries, soups, 'runny' foods, 'lumpy' foods, yoghurts, and I don't like foods which have overpowering smells. But recently I've just been getting sick of what I do eat and feeling unfit and unhealthy, but I don't know how I can change what I'm eating....

Feels guilt after my destroyed family?

when i was little my mom use to abuse herself into taking drugs and my dad use to go out and deal drugs around the town. someone phoned the social services and reported them as bad parents. I use to have to clean my sisters nappies and make food for us. I was only 7 at the time and my sister was 2. I have been told a lot of information about my mom and dad as now i am 18 and allowed to know. i was taken from them at the age of 8/9 and placed into care. i never attended school before i was placed into care i never left the house my parents didn't care about me and my sister. the house was all smelly and unfit to live in. but for some reason i find it hard to live my life without feeling guilt and i feel destroyed why my parents couldn't be good enough people to stand up to the responsibly and be parents. Me and my sister was placed on the high risk register from birth as my dad had been in prison for Violet crime i was also bullied at school for being the one without any parents this use to make me feel upset and angry. i tried to commit suicides at the age of 13 because of all the bullies. i have behaviour learning difficulties i missed out learning everything all children do from birth to 8 years of age. I was 8 and didn't know how to write my name!! overall i find it hard to live my life without having everything circulating around in my head. i always feel down

Help me get rid of arm flab!?

My arms are the only thing i am unhappy with on my body. they are real chubby on the upper back area. I want to tone my arms but I don't want to buy weights. How can i do this while staying home.

Heart Palpitations at age 15?

i have the same problem, sometimes it feels like my heart stops and i go really faint, im trying to get awnsers but form what ive learned all you can do is wait it out and go see a docter

Whatever Happened To Metal Music?

By the end of 1980 Led Zeppelin had broken up after John Bonham's death and Ozzy Osbourne had left Black Sabbath which was tantamount to that band breaking up so....that was the end of metal.

I'm a jogging beginner, and I keep experiencing lower leg pain. Ouch?

Well I guess you have to get used to this. I know its already been weeks since you started jogging, but all you have to do is just keep on doing this. If it results the same thing, I guess its something else wrong.

Am I anorexic, bulimic or neither?

it sounds like binge-purge anorexia. which is where you will not eat anything for ages, and then you feel an urge to eat loads of junk food and then throw up, you can't control your throwing up after a while, it just comes naturally.

Is having NO air conditioning make you a bad parent.?

I was always under the impression that air conition is considered a luxury to have. Air condtion growing up in the family car was "ROLLING DOWN THE WINDOWS" I would not consider it to be unfit or bad parenting. . I think people get to spoiled with the luxuries of life and in a moments notice expect it to be a neccessity to live. . .

Hi i'm a gal who wish to make life useful... now i'm facing love failure could u help me to come out.. pls?

There are loads of ways to meet new guys. The world is full of them. Go out with your friends, go get a makeover, enjoy life to the fullest. you will definitely meet your guy..

How come I see very fit men with really fat girlfriends?

I mean I would say if I was a fit man, I would want something that is just as fit as me! But alot of men I see they stay at the gym and get toned up for a woman, but the woman they get toned up for be fat as hell! Now I understand if you trying to get the woman in shape, but alot of them date unfit women and don't even hestiate to get them in shape! I mean its weird as hell and doesn't make any sense! You in the gym trying to look good for your mate but yet your mate aint trying to look good for you! That's backwards really! But how come that is tho?

Is anyone else sick of being made fun of for being small?

Look, I know that being overweight is hard, and so is losing weight when you're 300 pounds, but I am so tired of people being rude to skinny people all the time. Don't believe me? Watch this a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygGC9xvya4E" rel="nofollow"http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygGC9xvya…/a look, if I don't insult your size, don't insult mine. There are entire websites dedicated to how skinny people are all bitches and only want people to stare at them. If you google "real women" pictures of chubby girls will show up, because apparently skinny girls aren't real. the thing that upsets me most is the "zero is not a size" campaign, which talks about how anyone smaller than a size 6 just looks gross and fake. If you're going to preach acceptance then accept EVERYONE.

Why are some guys so shallow?

you pretty much answered your own question...lol, there is no finite reason other than thats just how we are by nature. we do or want things that are physically attractive, and if the person isnt physically attractive she needs to have a killer personality to make up for it...im sure its the same with girls

How to get rid of chubby cheeks?

I've always had chubby cheeks. I was chubby until about 8th grade and now as a freshman I am slim and toned but my chubby cheeks r still here! How do o get rid of them? They make me look childish and chubby. They hide my cheek bones so I look less female. How do I lose them with out surgery?

Child support question?

The only one that will end up being taken to court is your 17 year old boyfriend.If you go on any kind of public assistance,(food stamps,TANF, public housing,etc) the state child support division will automaticly go after the father for child support. There is no way on earth that he can take you to court so he does not have to pay child support. He has to pay his child support when it is established he is the father. If you are truely terrified about your baby son being in their home then I suggest you contact the child services division and talk to a case worker about your concerns.They should be able to point you in the right direction. Good luck

Can yahoo answers affect my future?

i just looked over some of my question and answers on yahoo, and it turns out i've had a yahoo answers since i was like 10, and i used to be kind of obnoxious, asking the most unfit questions, and some answers weren't always so polite, anyway i'm 17 now and in a year, i'll be in the real world, trying to get into college, and getting real jobs, could employers find my yahoo answers and like hate me, or even others that know me or something, there's not a way to delete them, i don't want this to affect the way people see me in the future.

Whats the best hair cut for a chubby face?

i normally just tie my hair up in a bun but now i want to try something new. i have quite a round face and not many hairstyles suit me. i was wondering if you could help me. thankyou in advance.

How do I run longer on a treadmill when im unfit?

So im going to the gym and trying to improve my fitness and lose abit of weight. I want to be able to do the 40minute cardio that is recommended but when i run on a treadmill i get tired within the first 5 minutes. This demotivates me because im just not fit enough to do the cardio that is needed. What can i do to make me last longer, or what can i do that will be effective in helping me to get fitter. Please help. Thanks

Is this a good piece for a chair test in a high school orchestra? (link to sheet music inside)?

I think you should be good...it definitively shows your shifting strength. Unless you want to be concert-master, the difficulty level should be fine.

I am addicted to chocolate?

I am addicted to chocolate, every day i eat loads and if i don't have any i become grumpy and unpleasant to be with. I am 14 and i do boxing, cycling and water polo so i'm not fat and i have great fitness levels. I go the gym twice every week but i would feel better if i didn't eat as much and i'm sure if see more benefits from the gym and boxing if i cut down. How can i stop because if i eat this much as an adult i will definitely be unfit and fat so do you know any alternatives or ways of cutting down? Thanks.

What is the piece of classical music in 2 greedy italians episode 4? It occurred twice in the first half.?

I hear it over lots of programmes, it sounds like a violin concerto or similar. It is driving me to distraction, as I have listened to hours of music (no hardship mind you!) to try to identify it. Many thanks.

What to do in this relationship?

My gf cheated on me 8 months ago, i took her back because I love her. Yesterday she told me the real reason why, and it was because she knew I would be there even after. She has been perfect the past 8 months though. She feels bad that she took me for granted. Yesterday she told me this and gave me a choice. To leave her or to give her a real chance at this relationship. ( for the past 8 months I been kinda of a a$s to her. any good tips? btw the reason she took me for granted is because I'm not the best looking guy on the planet but not the worst. I do have girls over me when I get into shape and actually try. But at the moment I am kinda a little chubby.. But anywhoo any advice will help

Can girls find chubby/ husky guys attractive?

It depends on the girl. Some girls just go for looks, but if you find a good girl, she will care for more than that.

Nobody ever understands me or my problems, or are speechless when they hear them. Can anyone here help me?

basically stop blaming yourself and thinking of suicide and also as for the rest oyu are just growing up! :)

Can someone help me figure out a good hairstyle for my face?

Side-swept bangs are the best for round faces. Never part down the middle, and always have one side a lil more heavier/fuller than the other.

Should I play Oboe, Violin or Piano as second Intsrument?

Hi , I was thinking of doing another instrument because I really like music and think it will help my learning of music for my GCSE. The first instrument I play is an alto saxophone and so far for 1 1/2 years. I am thinking of piano because i can play all the scales and octaves and many pieces but I can't really play using both hands really well. Violin because I can play many classical pieces and I like doing solo. Or maybe oboe because yesterday I heard my friend play who is grade 8 in oboe and she played concerto Mozart and I thought it was beautiful plus I could learn during summer holiday and practise loads and I think I could do good because I might think of having my friends tutor also :) so which one. I don't really care about difficulty because I swear I will practise so much.

Do you think this guy liked me or something?

So I was at my friends church for a youth group meeting and we were watching a movie. My friend and I were sitting in the back and this one kid was sitting a little to the right of me and up a bit. The ENTIRE time he kept looking (or staring) with this blank expression on his face. Every time I caught him looking at me him look away though. Then one minute we locked eyes for a few seconds but then I looked away. I'm pretty average big blue eyes, medium length brown hair, I'm a little chubby like 155 lbs 5'7. This guy that was looking at me was the really hot jock kind of guy that I would never think would like me. But what do you think by his actions? Thanks! :)

Why does my husband find me more attractive (10 points)?

my husband and i are 27 have been married for 2 years. last year i was thin and went to the gym a few times a week and my husband and i had a good sex life and cuddled often. now i got a promotion at my job and i have been working more, so i guess i havent been able to work out and started eating more and i guess "let myself go" so i have gained some weight in the past year. so now im chubby. you would think he would be less attracted to me but he seems more into me and its like he cant keep his hands off of me. all he wants to do is cuddle and we have sex WAY more often than when i was thin .when we hug and kiss he likes to grab onto my rolls or love handles. like yesterday when he got back from work (he is a sports writer btw) we hugged and kissed and he put his arms around me and started squeezing and grabbing my fat. at first i felt really uncomfortable with him touching me, but after awile i was ok with it. i do have bigger breasts, a bigger butt, and i a much more curvy figure now, so maybe thats why he is more attracted to me. i would get it is was chubby before and lost weight and then was more attracted to me, but i dont get it with this scenario. i know im his wife and he will always love me but you can love something and not be attracted to it like after my older sister had her baby she had gained 40 pounds because of her pregnancy and she told me that recently her husband could not even look at her :(. if it helps answer the question he is a big guy and has been oveweight since the day i met him

Need help identifying a song?

It is from within the past two-three years . It's sung by a female who is almost certainly a Brit with darker skin, possibly of Turkish descent or the like, a bit chubby and young, lower 20s or so. She has a one word stage name, which is something proper like Elizabeth or Samantha. The chorus is something sort of like "you know I like it when you , you know I want to see you ". The video for it has her bohemian, hipsterish friends dancing in various, improvised fashions and generally playing around. Very pop sounding. Also, the video has a penis shaped light switch

Custody of my nephew ...?

My sister lives in another state. She has charges in two separate states and she just moved again. She is still married but lives with her boyfriend. Her husband lives here but is in no shape to raise a child. They are both drug addicts and are unfit parents. Would I have a chance of getting custody of my nephew if I turned her in ?

Dating question about girls?

damn dude.........feedee and feeder??!? its probly gonna be super hard to find a girl who wants to get chubby with you but shes def out there just gotta look super hard

I'm sort of chubby, i've being losing some weight from exercise and eating vegetables. Any other suggestions ?

Mix up your exercise routines once in a while. My secret weapon is just a simple, long walk! Dancing helps too!

Are there any promising English attacking midfielders coming up...?

Should England really be playing attacking midfielders? Aaron Ramsey is Welsh. Shelvey is really decent. Fabian Delph is decent aswell.

Would Nina Perlove be an example of a fine flute teacher? And could I get into Juilliard?

Well i might start by suggesting that you learn to drive. I know someone who drives about 4 hours down to Boston every other week for his violin lesson (he's REALLY good). Juilliard would probably like to see the commitment you put into getting lessons and improving your playing. Since you already seem to be a great player (congrats on all of your accomplishments, btw), your playing would still greatly improve if you took private lessons (this is true for about 99.9% of all musicians). If your playing were to improve even more, you might have a better chance at Juilliard! Sorry I can't be more helpful when it comes to the more flute-specific aspects of your question, but I don't play, so I'll leave that to people who know what they're talking about:)

How dirty can a house be when you do the following?:?

After reading your questions I recommend that you see a therapist to help you deal with your issues. If you cannot afford one, you should go to your local county courthouse to get help from a social worker. A social worker can help you get a place to live and free mental health care.

Can i still eat junk food when im trying to preserve my voice for singing?

ok well im in a band and i sing...so yah i love to eat junk food like chips with hot sauce or cookies n stuff n ya i realized after getting arrested i started gettin chubby while on house arrest cuz all i ate was junk food n i didnt really practice my singing but now i have 10days left on house arrest until i can get back with my band. but i've noticed my voice isnt the same anymore...so i decided to start working out like running on a treadmill pushups sit-ups simple stuff....an it helps but i was wondering if i can still eat junk food chips,cookies pizzas n **** if i work out everyday like will it ruin my voice?

Tips on getting faster and losing weight for football?

I'm 15 years old and I'm chubby. I joined the football team and have been exercising and practicing on the team for a month now. I am definitely getting stronger but it doesn't seem like I'm losing any weight. I'm pretty fast but I want to get a lot faster by losing all my belly fat. Any tips on losing weight and getting faster for football?

What sports or activities can i start at the age of 15?

from the last 9 years or so i been chubby and got fatter and rejected any activities that came my way i am very un social not like to talk to people i didn't know and didn't like going out because of the way i looked. Im starting weight loss and want to do something i will enjoy that has people my game there that are new. i have played soccer before but i didn't enjoy it because of all the running involved but now im more giving to do things...

What would i have to do to burn the most fat?

i have never tried any of these weight loss programs and don't plan to. they say that doing a certain diet will help, but i am unwilling to cut anything out. except candy, that can go. im a pear shaped person. my arms are skinny though.... all my weight is in my tummy and thighs. i am also unwilling to pay for anything like that. i just want to lose a little weight. before i was pregnant with my daughter, i was 165 at 5'11''. right before chloe was born i was 180, but now im over 200 and keep gaining slowly. my job has me on my feet all day long. about 10 hours a day. i don't seem to be losing any weight. i dont want to weight more than 200... not even 190lbs is good. i wanna weight somewhere close to 180 again... how would i approach that? are there certain foods, based on specifically me that i can eat to help? i've tried going to gyms, but to no avail im still the same...i'm tired of looking in the mirror and seeing myself as one of the chubbiest 21 year olds i know. can you lend me some advice?

Problem with traps. Muscle imbalance or just fat sitting on top?

Ok, I kind of have a problem and I'm not sure if it's serious or not. Everytime I get into a push up position I look in the mirror with my shirt off and notice that my right trap seems to be bigger than my left. But when I'm standing straight both sides are aligned. I've recently booked an appointment with my doctor to see if I have some problem with my spine, but I highly doubt it since scoliosis doesn't run in my family. Other than that I'm 5'8, Male, and 150LB...and I do admit I'm kind of chubby lol. So, I'm not sure if this is a muscle imbalance or just fat sitting on my one side. I know you can't spot reduce, but I'd like to know if anyone has come across this before. Oh yea, I've also started going to the gym with my brother to get fit, but not entirely sure if it's fat or not. Thanks in advance!

Why are my cheeks chubby looking?

I'm 15 and I've had my braces for 3 years, I've had a expander, something to make my jaw come out a little, just about everything done to my mouth. I would like to say I get them off in November, my cheeks look chubby, when I get them off will they go down? My gums are a bit inflammed too, will those go down and look healthy?

What do you think of this statement in regard to our current government Bush/0bama and mandated law against...?

The government does act like a tyrant. It's force against the will of any individual is force against all individuals liberty.

Problems with traps. Fat sitting on top or Muscle imbalance?

Ok, I kind of have a problem and I'm not sure if it's serious or not. Everytime I get into a push up position I look in the mirror with my shirt off and notice that my right trap seems to be bigger than my left. But when I'm standing straight both sides are aligned. I've recently booked an appointment with my doctor to see if I have some problem with my spine, but I highly doubt it since scoliosis doesn't run in my family. Other than that I'm 5'8, Male, and 150LB...and I do admit I'm kind of chubby lol. So, I'm not sure if this is a muscle imbalance or just fat sitting on my one side. I know you can't spot reduce, but I'd like to know if anyone has come across this before. Oh yea, I've also started going to the gym with my brother to get fit, but not entirely sure if it's fat or not. Thanks in advance!

How come I see very fit men with really fat girlfriends?

I mean I would say if I was a fit man, I would want something that is just as fit as me! But alot of men I see they stay at the gym and get toned up for a woman, but the woman they get toned up for be fat as hell! Now I understand if you trying to get the woman in shape, but alot of them date unfit women and don't even hestiate to get them in shape! I mean its weird as hell and doesn't make any sense! You in the gym trying to look good for your mate but yet your mate aint trying to look good for you! That's backwards really! But how come that is tho?

I do not wish to gain a lot of muscle, just lose a bit of weight... Should I be lifting weights?

A mile a day is really just a warm up tbh. If you want to lose weight you diet,eat less or at least eat food that's better for you,less fattening.Pity you stopped swimming,I find it's great for giving you a lean torso.

How can I stay confident?

he is with you because you are his beauty his girl his one and only babe. if he wanted your friend hed be w ur friend or someone that looks like her. but no hes with you. he loves you and only you. hes with you cuz he thinks ur beautiful smart cute everything else. u make his heart thump like crazy, she doesnt. only you. dont let your thoughts get in the way because your insecurities will push him away eventually. show him what a great person u r wen u go hang out and he will love u even more.

Is it really "shallow-ness", or is it fair in the game of love and lust? (GUYS ONLY PLS :)?

Shallow. No such thing as "fair-game" in that context. He should enjoy you and like you the way you are, unstable weight or not, and unless you become quite obese when you're at the height of the yoyo weight, why the hell does he care? Anywhere between sizes 6-10 and sometimes 12, women are very sexy.

Do i have a legit child custody of proving the mom unfit?

Well little Brother sounds like you are on the ball with this one. Don't get in too big of a hurry it may take a while but you have her nailed GOOD. Enjoy your life with your child !!

How come I see very fit men with really fat girlfriends?

I mean I would say if I was a fit man, I would want something that is just as fit as me! But alot of men I see they stay at the gym and get toned up for a woman, but the woman they get toned up for be fat as hell! Now I understand if you trying to get the woman in shape, but alot of them date unfit women and don't even hestiate to get them in shape! I mean its weird as hell and doesn't make any sense! You in the gym trying to look good for your mate but yet your mate aint trying to look good for you! That's backwards really! But how come that is tho?

What do you think of this Classic concert (richard Strauss)?

Strauss wrote two horn concertos. This one sounds nothing like the 2nd. I think they are so far apart in time that he really changed his style of writing. Of the 2, this is my favorite, you know his dad was one of the great horn players of the 18 hundreds.

The Ps3 or the Xbox 360?

Whoa I gave up on the 3 line but um yeah xbox if u want better games to play and ps3 if you want free live online gaming

Should the people of britain get together and stop paying taxes to the government?

Considering they are no longer serving our needs. They are bankrolling us to fund their imperial takeover of the middle east. Lying that there is a credit crunch by putting the cost of groceries and fuel through the roof and putting the wages down. Convincing us to pay back the billions the bankers lost by putting taxes through the roof. Closing libraries down so people watch more propaganda tv. Close swimming and leisure centres down so people get unfit and depressed. People need to wake up to the fact that our leaders would rather we are dead than alive. Should we cut off their tax lifeline? They don't deserve our money.

Careers in Music: Too late for me?

You'll find there is so much more to being a professional pianist that playing the same recital over and over again in front of huge audiences around the world like kempf or lang lang. Uni will be great for you. You may find that you want to teach, become an examiner, exam accompanist, play in pits, do recital in smaller venues like town halls, be a wedding pianist, bar pianist, arranger, or repetitur. Most pianist will teach to some degree to sustain a regular income. You could still become a solos in your own right. The trick is to simply grab opportunities, meet new people and contacts and work hard. The right outcome will become apparent whilst studying at uni.

Feels guilty after my family was destroyed 11 years ago need help?

when i was little my mom use to abuse herself into taking drugs and my dad use to go out and deal drugs around the town. someone phoned the social services and reported them as bad parents. I use to have to clean my sisters nappies and make food for us. I was only 7 at the time and my sister was 2. I was scared and had no idea on what to do the whole house was a mess and a health and safety hazard nothing was clean. people use to come knocking on our house shouting for my dad because my dad owe them money and people use to shout through the letterbox at early hours in the morning.I never had any friends when i was younger nor did me sister, my mum and dad use to shout at me for being there. they use to have sex infront of me and my sister and preform sexual acts on each other. I have been told a lot of information about my mom and dad as now i am 18 and allowed to know. i was taken from them at the age of 8/9 and placed into care. i never attended school before i was placed into care i never left the house my parents didn't care about me and my sister. the house was all smelly and unfit to live in. but for some reason i find it hard to live my life without feeling guilt and i feel destroyed why my parents couldn't be good enough people to stand up to the responsibly and be parents. Me and my sister was placed on the high risk register from birth as my dad had been in prison for Violet crime i was also bullied at school for being the one without any parents this use to make me feel upset and angry. i tried to commit suicides at the age of 13 because of all the bullies. i have behaviour learning difficulties i missed out learning everything all children do from birth to 8 years of age. I was 8 and didn't know how to write my name!! overall i find it hard to live my life without having everything circulating around in my head. i always feel down

How hard is it to get into the Oberlin Conservatory for classical piano?

I've been playing for almost 10 years and have attended Interlochen for piano (this summer will be my second time). I'm a high school junior right now and am finishing up Rachmaninoff's Prelude No. 5 (Opus 23) and Liszt's Hungarian Rhapsody No. 6. In the past I've done Beethoven's Pathetique Sonata and Schubert's Impromptu in e flat (opus 90, no. 2). I've begun to work on the Grieg Piano concerto in A minor and some Chopin Nocturnes. What are my chances of getting in to Oberlin's conservatory? Thanks for any insight.

What is the chances in rats for megacolon?

What are the chances of megacolon of the mommy and litter are NON high white. Mom was dumbo Mink Berkshire, dad was Dumbo Russian Blue Self. The babies range from Mink, Mink Dilute, Black, and Beige. The markings are Irish and Irish mismarked. The babies are 4 weeks and seem to have a bit of belly pudge. Is it normal for babies this age to have a slightly chubby belly? They all seem to be going to the bathroom fine...quite often actually.

Will a last Will and Testament help my mom assign custody of her children?

Unless the Bio-Dad has lost custody for some reason he would have a very good chance of getting custody of the minor children. You could fight it in court but unless there is a reason for him not to have custody then he would get it.

Survey: Women, do you prefer thin, medium weight, or chubby men?

thin to medium. I tend to prefer guys that are kind of tall and slim, as long as they still have some muscle tone, but not too skinny.

What would be the best piano concerto for me?

I am about DipABRSM Standard and have previously played three concertos: One by Haydn and the other two by Mozart (k 414 and k 488). I was wondering perhaps Mozart either no. 24 k 491 (C minor) or no. 20 k 466 (D minor) or Beethoven's 3rd piano concerto (C minor) or (possibly) even Rachmaninoff's 2nd piano concerto Op. 18 in C minor. Any other possibles you could recommend would be very helpful.

How can i avoid gaining weight in Italy?

So here's the situation. I am leaving in a couple of weeks to go see some family in Italy for about a month, the problem is that gaining weight over there seem inevitable, which is a big disappointment seeing as ive been working really hard to stay fit. I know that gaining weight in Italy is a sure thing for me because i have gain a few pounds and comments on how i got a little chubbier from my last visit. The meals usually consist of typical italian meals ( lots of starch and olive oil ) and are served in ridiculous portions. I know i could just eat little portions but it seems to offend people if i dont eat till im over my stomac's limit. The option of exercising while in italy doesnt seem to work as my time spent in Italy is always spent doing some sort of activity like walking, hicking or swimming. So if anyone has any usefull suggestions please let me know :).

I AM CONSTANTLY HUNGRY! HELP?

How old are you, for age might have something to do with it. Yeah like everyone else here, seeing a doctor would be for the best.

Info about Vivaldi's Violin Concerto in A Minor RV356 Op.3?

Does anyone know information about the piece, like, when it was written, what it was written for etc.? I've checked google but haven't been able to find any information.

How to lose boob fat? ?

I'm a little chubby (10 lbs over weight) and I have side boob fat. I can't wear regular bra's I have to wear sports bra's. Please help, my body is fine, I just need to lose the extra fat hanging off the side of my boob. Thankkssss(:

Did mozart write any orchestral works that don't include oboes?

I listen to Mozart very often, and I can tell he really likes oboes and wrote a lot of solos for them. But I don't hear any in his 22nd piano concerto. Just flutes, clarinets, and bassoons... It just seems unlikely Mozart would do that. Maybe there are oboes but they don't have solos? Can you tell me whether or not the 22nd piano concerto has any oboes or if there are any other pieces he wrote for a full orchestra that don't have oboes?

How do you like my writing..About a 16 year old girl who Runs away from DC to LA looking to be a Star?

Your words and ideas are great, but you need to work on your grammar and syntax...but that can all be saved for the editing/proofreading phase. Overall, you got a lot of potential :)

My guy friend does everything i say!?

He likes you, but he's spineless and thinks that trailing behind you like a little puppy is the way to make you like him back. When he finds out that you already like him, he probably won't have the guts to ask you out because he has you up on a pedestal instead of having pride in himself and thinking of you as equals.

How much musical liberty are you allowed to take?

the baroque period was characterized by ornamentations, in architecture, painting and music is no exception. each player can ornament the musical works of this period and thus putting his personal touch to the execution... Good luck

How can I be as skinny as Victoria Justice?

I need to loose weight fast. People call me chubby. I love Victoria Justice and she looks like a healthy 16 year old girl. I am 12 years old. And I want to be skinny as Victoria Justice. Is there a diet I can use? What should I eat daily? Please help!

Does my crush like me?

aw.... "giant tadde bear"? That's so cute! I think she likes you! I think you should wait for about 1 month, or 2 weeks, don't move too fast. I think you guys are gonna be great together! Good luck

What are some good work outs to do?

Okay well I have a little bit of belly and thy fat.. Not a lot but I wanna have a flat belly (not abs) and nice legs so I don't feel chubby I guess lol.. Diets work too I just don't want to go like over board like most people. Thanks

Do you guys think Rachel Flatt is a little chubby?

I know she isn't fat but i also dont think she resembles the normal physic of figure skaters whatsoever and that it affects her performing presence. what are your thoughts?

How old do you have to be to decide which parent you want to live with?

i am sixteen years of age and currently residing in the state of Michigan although i am a resident of Pennsylvania, (which is where my mother resides) i want to continue living with my mother but my father has brought up the question of our "safety" living with our mother. he thinks my mom is an unfit guardian. she has taken him to court for child custody & support. this is the only reason my dad is now questioning our well being. we are completely fine living with my mother, currently i have been forced to reside in the state of MI at my fathers residence. i am very unhappy and homesick, the court is investigating our situation. i am wondering how long this may take & if i will have a reasonable say in whom i want to live with? any advice? i have also already written a letter to the court expressing my views and concerns.

Whats the most sad but beautiful violin piece, solo or concerto ever?

Whats the most beautiful tear jerking violin music you have ever heard in your life, like it literally touches you soul and makes you all emotional

Will you check this poem [02], s' il vous plait?

Music speaks to me as if answering prayers. The last time this happened, I heard the song sing "Help is on the Way", that made my day. I never considered that I am the director quite in this way, it gives me thought and I thank you for this.

Stumpy horse, how can I get his movement to be more fluent?

The kind of work you're doing with him may not be helping him a lot. Try doing basic flatwork exercises before doing dressage, jumping and complex flatwork movements. Try doing circles, figures of eight, serpentines and if he's not listening properly to you, do halts and half-halts to get him responding comstantly to you and your aids and commands.

15&Pregnant I Weighed 114 Now I Weigh 130 Im 35 Weeks Culd That Mean My Baby Will b Underweight Or Chubby?

When I Was 33 Weeks My Baby Guurl Weighed 4 Pounds Exact , Now Im Gaining More Weight Does That Mean She Will Be Chubby Or Skinny ? And I Went Into Preterm Labor But They Stopped The Contractions I Dilated 1 Cm , Could That Mean I Can Go Into Labor Early To ?

What is the texture, harmony, rhythm, melody, form, and tone color of Beethoven's Piano Concerto No. 5?

Have you even listened to the piece once? Go on the Internet, find a recording of the piece, listen to it, and be done with it.

Which of the following would have the lower bac?

Best guess here is the older unfit woman. The reasoning behind this is that the percentage of body fat is greater in women than men typically and unfit people have usually more body fat. Thus the person with the greatest body fat and thus mass would in theory have a lower BAC for equal amounts of alcohol ingested because it would be more dilute.

How can I help my family, chiefly my Dad, with all that is going on?

wow... after reading this.. Dear i am speech less. you are one brave cookie. i think the only thing you can do is keep on swimming. And stop the addiction that will save you some money.

- O M G . . . . . . .?

Yes you can get in shape in about 3 months.eat healthy and drink lots of water.Look up glute excercises for your butt.but the ones u mentioned seem pretty good.

Do you think i'd lose a lot of weight doing this?

Dont eat too much even if its healthy food.theyre still calories.and do excercise like running outside youll lose about 30 pounds by the time school starts if u keep this up.

Question for girls or women!?

Honestly you wouldn't look if you have nothing to find.... I think is because of attraction. I would not look at anyone in their eyes when their walking by because I have no reason to. So it kind of makes sense. So I think is because of attraction.

Help please emergency! ?

okay so right now i'm scared or idk wat going on but about 2-1 months ago i took a photo and i took one today and i look fat! idk why and before i was a size 14 now im a size 8-10 and every one tells me i look thin and all but i feel so fat and when i look in the mirror i look fat even tho people tell me i look supee thin and idk why this is happening i need help im 13 years old, and im a girl and idk y and every one says my face is,skinny and small but i look in the mirror it look chubby and round help!!! i'm driving nuts! even my friends say everytime i see u you look thinner but for me it everytime i see myself i look fatter

Should I play Oboe, Violin or Piano as second Intsrument?

Hi , I was thinking of doing another instrument because I really like music and think it will help my learning of music for my GCSE. The first instrument I play is an alto saxophone and so far for 1 1/2 years. I am thinking of piano because i can play all the scales and octaves and many pieces but I can't really play using both hands really well. Violin because I can play many classical pieces and I like doing solo. Or maybe oboe because yesterday I heard my friend play who is grade 8 in oboe and she played concerto Mozart and I thought it was beautiful plus I could learn during summer holiday and practise loads and I think I could do good because I might think of having my friends tutor also :) so which one. I don't really care about difficulty because I swear I will practise so much.

Should I let my mom have her dog?

it doesn't sound to me like she is going to hurt or neglect or damage this dog, it just sounds like she may not know how to train it. i had no idea what i was doing when i got 2 dogs but i took them to some obedience classes and they are fine, so maybe you can suggest that to her if your worried. when it comes right down to it though she can have a dog if she wants and you really don't have any say so in the matter

Help!! How can I practice Beethoven's first concerto in c major?

Isolate the trouble spots and use them as warm-ups that are practiced with repetitiveness on a daily basis. Practice them slowly and increase the tempo as you gain fluency with the passage. Once you have mastered a particular trouble spot, put it in its context within the composition. There is no need to continually practice those sections that give you no problems. As you mature in your playing, you will look back and wonder why a particular passage ever gave you a problem.

Will my weight loss make me look slim? 10 points?

I am currently on a 10 week diet (1200 calories a day) My starting weight is 131lbs and i am 5'3. So if i lose about 10lbs will it be very noticeable as i have always been fat/chubby so compared to someone who has always been lighter than me will it make be look like i've lost more weight and more slim?

How important is it to have morals and ethics?

IT is very important and society is definitely lacking in it. I am 20 years old and everyone is always giving me dirty looks and being so mean and I am a very friendly person. My mom tells me the world has changed so much since she was growing up. Society is falling apart and I pray that the Lord will come back for the final judgment anyday now so we can live on in the kingdom and not have to worry about this bad life anymore.

How hard is it to get into the Oberlin Conservatory for classical piano?

I've been playing for almost 10 years and have attended Interlochen for piano (this summer will be my second time). I'm a high school junior right now and am finishing up Rachmaninoff's Prelude No. 5 (Opus 23) and Liszt's Hungarian Rhapsody No. 6. In the past I've done Beethoven's Pathetique Sonata and Schubert's Impromptu in e flat (opus 90, no. 2). I've begun to work on the Grieg Piano concerto in A minor and some Chopin Nocturnes. What are my chances of getting in to Oberlin's conservatory? Thanks for any insight.

Are these names ok for white part black kids or woukd it be wierd?

I have names for girls and boys but myfriend says they wouldent be good for me and my boyfriend cuz he is totaly white and im part black. are they really that unfitting or is she just being wierd The names for boys are Anthony and Sebastian ,and the girl names are Leah and Ivy

I have stretch marks ALL over what do i do?

Okay so, i got the weight from being chubby when i was younger, i lost all the weight and got taller but i have them on my thighs, inner thighs, hips, lower back, breasts, butt, under my arms, calves, practically everywhere :((( But how do i get rid of them? And do stretch mark creams even work? Thanks in advance no rude comments please :)

Can I get a bikini body in 1 month?

I'm 15, 5'5, weigh 142 pounds.. and I really want a bikini body in a month for my 16th birthday at the beach. I've never really been able to wear a bikini because I've always been a little chubby. I really want to change that. My stomach is really chubby..that's really my main problem. My upper arms are a little fat too. My boobs are also a D size..if that makes a difference. Anyone have anything that will help me get a flat stomach in a month?? I have like no confidence..every time I go to the beach I hate seeing all these girls in bikini's that look amazing. My family is always telling me I could wear one..but i don't want to just wear a bikini, I want to look good in it. PLEASE HELP??!

How to get motiveated to do more excercise?

im 14 and a girl, how can i get more motivated in getting up most mornings and doing nterval trainings im chubby and a tad unfit so i dont think anything will inprove so i dont bother :s i need to get motivated and want to do it but HOW? :)

Brother cant stop eating?

Maybe when your mom's kemo (srry to hear about that, btw) is finished, the family can sit down and discuss a family lifestyle change as far as diet and exercise. Everyone can motivate one another to get healthy before anyone else developes problems. Obesity can lead to asthma, diabetes, heart disease, as well as raises risks for certain cancers. This should be a family effort for a healthy and longer life. Best wishes for your mother's and everyone else's health concerns.

Is my butt still going 2 grow?

I'm 13, so when I was 11 I used to be really chubby and had like normal butt but when I got my period and turned 12 I lost weight a lot, but whenever I wear jeans, short or something my butt is sooo flat like my butt got sooo thin and skinny! but when i wear VS pink yoga pants my butt looks normal/average. and i always try to work itand tone it but not butt, will it still be growing?

Do think i have a case of winning child joint physical custody?

well here is the situation, i just baby that is 3 months.im a paramedic and his mom is a firefighter.i have him on my insurance, i keep the child more than she does, and pay child support.she is really hateful and has serious anger issues. we are currently in counseling to figure out the source of her anger problem. she has done numerous things that i have proof of. she texted me and said she was going to kill me, she said she would kick my friends ***, she has harassed a couple of my friends with messages on facebook,i have text from her saying that she will kill her mom,a text of her saying she gonna get some one to kick my ***,a video of me trying to give her a money order and her refusing to take it, i have her on video actually pull out the driving way with me in the car and then driving away wreckless, a video of her almost getting into it with the officer, and i have video of her saying she don't care if she go to jail.also i have her mentally abusing her other son by yelling at a 4 y/o because he is afraid of dark, call him a sissy *** *****.she also stated he need to grow up and stop acting like a childish. here is the video of her driving the car wreckless, also she has the music up loud which could damage a baby ear drum.a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyv1BnDqW0A" rel="nofollow"http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyv1BnDqW…/a also what is a good way to prove her to be unfit? i was thinking something mental

Piano pieces recommendations?

Beethoven's "Moonlight Sonata" is beautiful, the first movement is fairly simple but the third is incredibly challenging. I recommend the first movement.

I can get full custody the solictor told me the mother is unfit?

Being unfit isn't in law books my friend. you need to ditch that solicitor for lieing to you and for being racist and unprofessional, find a new solicitor or else you will regret hiring him.

I need help,has to do with puppies?

Ok so i have been taking care of my brother-n-laws dog for about a year now beacause he went to college but now is just living from friend to friend.He now lives with his dad.well i have a dog too and between that time my dog got her pregnant and had 3 puppies.well now that she had puppies all he cares about is taking 2 of them away and selling them and keeping the money for them( even though we have been taking care of his dog without him comeing to see her or see how she is doing,me and my husband buy her food and groom her,he never did) MY question is should i let him take the 2 puppies and get the money for them?he said he knows someone he will give one of the puppies to,and i told him no because that guy is never home either and didnt take care of his dog right,he ended up giving his dog away for chewing on walls,am i wrong to tell him he cant take none of the puppies aftr knowing he is just hading them to unfit not responsible people?he called the police saying that we stole his dogs lol the police said he can take his dog but we dont have to give him the puppies.Will i get in trouble if i dont give him any puppies?i know he might call the police again if we dont give him the puppies.can i go to jail or can he take me to court?i think im going to be the one to pay for thier first shots too! I just really care who these puppies go to,i want the owners to be responsible and have money to take care of them.they are half chihuahua and half yorkie.

How many calories do i burn an hour playing piano?

I've looked it up on multiple sites, and they say i can burn anywhere from 100 to 150 calories an hour. I play like hefty piano concertos sometimes for 3 hours straight. some people say that it doesn't replace excercise, but it is exhausting, i find myself out of breath often and exhausted even in my legs. So about how many calories do i burn an hour, YA?

What are some good Percussion Concertos?

My school has a concerto competition and I'd like to enter. I was just wondering if there were any good percussion concertos out there that people liked a lot (perferably non-mallet, but anything is fine, and last year's winner played the Rosauro Marimba Concerto). Also, it's for percussion and wind ensemble. That's pretty important.

Can authorities have hospital records released for custody hearing?

There are federal HIPAA laws now that prevent access to medical records without the patient's permission. A court order might be able to get around the HIPAA restrictions, but that doesn't sound likely in the situation you describe.

13 year old weight loss help?

Hi my cousin is 13 years old is about 5'3'' and weighs 153 pounds. She looks a little chubby and has a belly roll. She is desperate to find out how to lose weight really fast for summer. She was wondering how to speed up her metabolism quite fast. Please help, and answer these questions. How do you lose weight really fast, and how do you speed up your metabolism?

Do you think i have a chance of winning a custody battle against my child's mother?

well here is the situation, i just baby that is 3 months.im a paramedic and his mom is a firefighter.i have him on my insurance, i keep the child more than she does, and pay child support.she is really hateful and has serious anger issues. we are currently in counseling to figure out the source of her anger problem. she has done numerous things that i have proof of. she texted me and said she was going to kill me, she said she would kick my friends ***, she has harassed a couple of my friends with messages on facebook,i have text from her saying that she will kill her mom,a text of her saying she gonna get some one to kick my ***,a video of me trying to give her a money order and her refusing to take it, i have her on video actually pull out the driving way with me in the car and then driving away wreckless, a video of her almost getting into it with the officer, and i have video of her saying she don't care if she go to jail.also i have her mentally abusing her other son by yelling at a 4 y/o because he is afraid of dark, call him a sissy *** *****.she also stated he need to grow up and stop acting like a childish. here is the video of her driving the car wreckless, also she has the music up loud which could damage a baby ear drum.a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyv1BnDqW0A" rel="nofollow"http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyv1BnDqW…/a also what is a good way to prove her to be unfit? i was thinking something mental

What are some good food challenges, Like chubby bunny && etc ?

Try the Chocolate Milk Challenge, 2 litres of milk in 1 hour, no using the washroom and you must hold it down for 1 hour.

Do you know a good Asian Drama, with a rich guy and poor girl falls in love?

I have watched many Asian Dramas, and I am obessed. I love the typical asian dramas, with a poor girl and rich guy falls in love! <3 I have watched many dramas like that, like Boys before Flowers, shining inhertiance,my girl, why why love, autumn concerto, 1st shop of coffe prince, easy fortune happy life, secret garden....Soo now I am trying to look for a another good asian drama, any suggesions? Thankyou =)

How do I stop my mentally inbalanced ex seeing the kids alone?

Hate to tell you this, but you are horrible. Just because he has a disability doesn't mean he is unfit. It doesn't give you the right to take his kids away from him.

Can you help me about my MOM AND DAD?

He probably can take you out with the judge's consent. She said don't come back if you leave. That's neglect.

Un rhyming, minimalist Staccato Poem, titled: The Flautist.?

You should make the last stanza into a poster and hang it up at the grocery store. =P Always dig the short lines, who is this mistress??

Greig's Piano Concerto in A minor?

I'm currently learning all three movments of Grieg's concerto for a contest and I was wondering the level of difficulty of the 3 movments. On a scale of 1-10, what would be the difficulty of each of the movements? I played Petrarch's sonnett 104 by Liszt and Chopin's "Winter Wind" etude for my last contest and was wondering if the concerto is in my skill level.

I need MAJOR help for my looks for this school year! Makeup Clothes and Hair!?

omg there are so many things for u to wear!! i think its all about finding something youre comfortable in but are happy with how u look. i would reccommend going out for a day and trying on a lot of clothes and going to like a sephora or department store to get ur makeup done. tell them what u really want like a natural look and they'll help u. also email me for more advice i love to help!!!

How to get into Mixed Martial Arts?

I'm looking into how to get into boxing first then other stuff. Also I'm 13 is it to late or do I still have time. I'm 6'1" 1/2 and around 212 pounds so I definitely have a good start but I'm sort of chubby. Whats a good exercise routine. Also I play baseball a lot do you think that would get in the way if so I wouldn't want to start mma.

Adivce!?! PLEASE HELPPP!!!!!?

Let's just say Im kinda chubby. I'm 5' 6" 13 years old, and about 150 pounds. I'm not really fat, considering im really strong for a girl, and musle wieghs more than fat.. diets and stuff wont help.. does anyone know where i can get one of those things that tuck in your stomach? Other advice would help alot too..

Why does my husband find me more attractive (10 points)?

my husband and i are 27 have been married for 2 years. last year i was thin and went to the gym a few times a week and my husband and i had a good sex life and cuddled often. now i got a promotion at my job and i have been working more, so i guess i havent been able to work out and started eating more and i guess "let myself go" so i have gained some weight in the past year. so now im chubby. you would think he would be less attracted to me but he seems more into me and its like he cant keep his hands off of me. all he wants to do is cuddle and we have sex WAY more often than when i was thin .when we hug and kiss he likes to grab onto my rolls or love handles. like yesterday when he got back from work (he is a sports writer btw) we hugged and kissed and he put his arms around me and started squeezing and grabbing my fat. at first i felt really uncomfortable with him touching me, but after awile i was ok with it. i do have bigger breasts and a bigger butt now, so maybe thats why he is more attracted to me. i would get it is was chubby before and lost weight and then was more attracted to me, but i dont get it with this scenario. i know im his wife and he will always love me but you can love something and not be attracted to it like after my older sister had her baby she had gained 40 pounds because of her pregnancy and she told me that recently her husband could not even look at her :(. if it helps answer the question he is a big guy and has been oveweight since the day i met him

What is a good Asian drama?

Would someone give me a list of Asian dramas that either have a tragic ending or a lot of tears? Like Autumn's Concerto, Autumn's Tale, and Ja Myung Go? You can also give me some historical dramas. Thank you.

My friend keeps making judgements about my weight?

I'm not fat, nor was I ever fat, just a little chubby. I'm 5'3", 16 years old, and weighed 145 pounds a couple of months ago. I wasn't fat, but i DID want to start eating healthier and slim down a little. I started counting calories with the LoseIt! app on my iPod and I lost 30 pounds in a month and my friend was really excited that I lost weight that quickly so she decided to jump on to the weight loss train. She was never actually big to begin with, she weighed 108 and wanted to bring it down to 100. Since we started losing weight, she always has to make comments to me. For example, if we go out to eat and I want to pick something from the menu, she'll say "Do you know how many calories are in that? Are you sure you can eat that today?" She worries about my calories in a condescending way like I don't know what I can and can't eat! I'm better about my calories than she is and I always pre-plan my meals for the day just to make sure it fits in my calorie budget, so for her to treat me like an idiot, it ticks me off. Another thing, since it's summer, we usually go out to swim in her pool or to the beach, and everytime she sees me in a bikini, she'll tap my stomach and say "OOooh! someone's chunky!" I laugh along with her, but it really bugs me. Even if i'm not in a bikini, like, if i'm just wearing shorts and a t-shirt, she'll say something about my jiggly thighs or my chicken wing arms. I'll try to make a comeback like, you have jiggly thighs too, but she'll just say "well it's not as bad as yours!". I hate being around her now because she annoys me with her comments. How can I deal with this? or better yet, how can I make her stop?

Is the four seasons (vivaldi) a concerto grosso or a solo concerto?

i would like to know if the Four Seasons that Vivaldi wrote is a concerto grosso or a solo concerto. I would like it to be answered as fast as possible. If it is at all possible, in about an hour. Thanks!

Is it ok for me to attend a woman's gym?

I was a regular gym goer a while back and it was a men's and women's gym. Then when I reverted I stopped going. Is it ok for me to go to a woman's gym and not have to cover up my arms and neck? I feel so unfit!

What are some pretty violin pieces that I can play?

I want a romantic-esque theme. Somewhere along the lines of Ave Maria. No concerto's please and nothing too long like 8 minutes.

Instrumentation c.1800 in Spain?

I just checked several symphony scores by Luigi Boccherini, who lived and wrote the majority of his music while living in Spain, and the only brass instruments in their scores were 2 French Horns in F. There were no other brass instruments. Perhaps this is also indicative of the the score that you own. I hope this is helpful.

How can I stop being chubby, and become leaner?

There is no such thing as big boned. Anyone can look great if they work at it hard enough. I know it might suck and cliche but the way to get good looking is to work out, run, and eat less calories. A body burns about 2000 calories a day, so if you eat under 2000 and work out everyday you will lose weight. Honestly, if you want it you have to push for it and not cheat. Good luck.

Can my PE teacher call us unfit!?

He always says our class is ' unfit ' ' unhealthy ' ' should be ashamed ' I this even allowed!? and also I don't think he or the female one are qualified!?

What is a good work out routine that would help me reach my goal in 6 months?

if you eat more than you should, it will hardly matter how much you exercise....need to do both to meet your goals..

A question about fat cells?

I'm 13 & a little bit chubby, Ive started to feel these aligned lumps In my arms and in my belly, these are fat cells, right?

BIG decision i need help???

I’ve been married with my husband for 4 years now. My husband has a daughter and I’ve know my step daughter since she was 1. My husband was unfaithful to me and we are trying to work things out. I feel confused with working things out and stuff. Now a big issue came into the picture to top it off. My step-daughters grandparents lied to the court and forged my hubby’s signature giving up his rights so that they can get legal guardianship for my step-daughter. My step –daughter biological mother is an unfit mother with drug issues, she’s been in and out of the baby’s life. My step-daughter calls me “mommy” and its something she picked up on her own. We talked to a lawyer and she advised us to do the paperwork to fight back and grandparents will get in big trouble because of what they did but not only that our lawyer advised us to fight back for 100% custody but now im scared. Im FREAKING OUT because I don’t know what is the best decision  I want us to work and I want us to have my step-daughter because she means so much to me but unfortunately I don’t know what to do?  I need suggestions and opinions. Please help?????? (im scared of us granting 100% custody and for us not to work, where will she stand )

Did she change completely? What Should I Do?

From that you've said it sounds like she knows your interested. From her body language, "holds my hand and things," theres a good chance she is too. No harm in asking her how she feels about you if you want to take the next step. Good luck!

Would it be considered nerdy or cool if a guy that was a musician wrote a full orchestra piece for a girl?

So, im a musician. And i have a girlfriend i love a lot, and ive written her guitar and piano songs but im working on becoming a composer for films and want to write her a full concerto themed 'paris' cuz thats where she's always wanted too go. Original or nerdy? Gracias!

Why do UGLY men have UGLY children?

Don't say beautiful people can have ugly children too, because that is the typical answer. My mom has two female friends one with a girl same age as me 18 and she is ugly, she showed me a picture of her dad and they look like twins, even my brothers think she is ugly. She is nice and everything, and she told her relatives I said she is ugly and now they say I like her, and I'm gay. The other woman has a 5 year old boy just as ugly as the father, they look like clones. Before the school year was over this beautiful gorgeous girl was going out with an ugly dude and I was talking with my gf's and I said "Girls, don't get with an ugly dude because you are gonna have ugly children" next thing I know she is with a hot dude a bit on the chubby side but hot.This hot dude at my school looks just like her beautiful mother. The chances of a beautiful couple having ugly children is less than 1 in 100, the chances of an ugly couple having ugly children is 99.9999 in 100. I based this on observations.

Viola concerto to play first?

I've played violin for about 9 years now and I'm starting to play viola. I don't have a teacher yet but would still like to start on a viola concerto. Any recommendations for maybe an intermediate viola concerto to play first? Thanks for any suggestions~

I want to get in shape!?

I am 15 years old,male, and im 68kgs heavy.My height is 6"3.I am not so fat but i have got chubby stomach.Whenever i wear tight t-shirts it doesn't fit well and whenever i sit those layers all over my stomach can be seen easily.If i wear anything e lse i look quite thin.My body is shaped weird.Its not in V shape like most of the guys have but its shaped like an hour glass.How to lose that chubby stomach? How to bring my body in shape?

Concerto (or piece in general) for viola, clarinet, piano?

I need a piece for viola, clarinet, and piano for a charity concert. Any style is fine but it has to be easy to learn because of short notice.

Would you want this story in a book?

don't listen to the first guy, he's bitter and has never had a dream, i think its very good, it teaches children about the danger of the internet and you could tell them that in an interesting way

Violin concertos with arpeggios?

Anybody know any good violin concertos with arpeggios like vivaldi's concerto for 4 violins, the middle section? Any baroque or classical?

How important is it to have morals and ethics?

Every one has morals & ethics, they are the only way that people decide what they believe is right or wrong, by his moral and ethical standards every thing that he does is justifiable, by your moral and ethical standards everything he does is wrong. Morals and Ethics are the most important thing In everyones life, because they are the root of the thoughts that you use to make every decision.

How soon should I have her run away or board the plane to Hollywood?

In the beginning of my novel shows how Lauren comes from an unfit home. She is raped by her moms boyfriend and soon they get evicted. Living in a shelter she decides she wants to run away and audition to be an actress. Her childhood dream...So when should I have her run off. How sso in the novel ?

Is the Sibelius Violin Concerto a standard concerto?

I'm wondering if this would be suitable for a college audition because they ask for a "standard violin concerto".

Can I move out at 15?

I have a family member who will take me in but my dad wont let me go live with them. He's not going to sign over the papers. Him and I don't get along well and I've had DCF come in a few times they didn't do anything. I need to get out of this house. I was thinking about having my boyfriends mom fight for custody but I'd rather live with my aunt. Can I live with her if we go to court? My dad won't sign the papers over. I think I can prove him to be unfit because he does drugs. Will they make him take a drug test in court? I hope so. Please help. How can I get out?

My friend made me obese?

I know all the details because my friend confessed and told me all this yesterday. So im a guy, 15 and it basically started last year when my friend started lending me some money when I forgot my wallet so I could buy a snack from the vending machine. Then he started coming with me to the vending machine and offering to pay for my snack everyday. He then started buying me two snacks everyday even though I didn't ask and just said I could pay him back next time we went into town or something. So for a few weeks he would buy me two or three snacks everyday and needless to say the increase in calories was beginning to show. My friend said it really started when this happened as he saw me in swimming and noticed I looked chubbier. But it got worse over the next few months, he started buying me more and more snacks and with an increasing appetite and him being so nice I just happily ate. Every two weeks we would go into town to mcdonalds and he suggested an eating contest where the winner got to eat all the food and the loser had to pay for it. As I was getting bigger I always won and found myself eating 5 extra large big macs, fries, ice cream and feeling generally stuffed by the end. At school he would buy me extra snacks to take home and for the weekend in case I got hungry. When I went round to his house he always had plenty of snacks in and we always pigged out, me especially as I got bigger I began to lose control of my appetite, there was a point where I knew I was putting on weight, but I felt so hungry that I wanted more. On my birthday we spent the day in town shopping, I asked if we could get lunch and snacks but he said no, I moaned all day about how hungry I was but he said we wern't eating. Then when we got back to his house he had 3 birthday cakes, biscuits, chocolate and eclairs and said it was my birthday feast which I devoured like a pig. By new year of this year I had just hit the 200lbs mark. As of today I weight 230lbs. Yesterday was our annual yearly fitness test. Not surprisingly there was a lot to say for mine considering I can barely jog now. My teacher told me I had gained 80lbs in a year and my fitness had gone from average weight to morbidly obese. These words made me and my friend stop and think. I had been happy being overweight and he didn't mind making me fat. But when I told him I was morbidly obese and how much I weigh he said it was time to stop, he had just wanted me to get a bit fat for fun but it had got out of hand and now it had to stop. Now what do I do? I know most of you will say lose the weight but any advice?

How can I convince my mom to let me go to public school?

Don't say it's because of the money. Say you're lonely and want to get out and meet new people. Tell her in college you don't want to be the socially awkward kid who doesn't understand the new hypes people are talking about. You can join theater, chorus, debate team, yearbook, all counted towards college. You're ready to face the real world, and you don't want to bottled in the safe haven called "home." Act like its always been your dream to go to public school, how you want to be like them and branch out. I hope this helps you!

Do you think this guy thought I was cite or something?

i dnt undrstnd wht yur asking .... & if its wht i thnk .. um get ovr tht , if he was rlly interested , he wud have said somethng .

When i do exercise i get tight chested and wheezy, what is this..?

I had asthma when i was young but got cleared of it a while ago, i hope this is just because im very unfit and overweight.?

Why does my Cat not want to eat?

my cat has been like this for a while now & he got super skinny before he was chubby look exactly like Garfield But now Hes skinny & he doesn't wanna eat & he pee`s alot in the house , he Also is starting to hide alot , please help

Meeting a new person?

I found out one of my neighbors is my age (16) and he was adopted and they just got custody back from his unfit parents so he stays inside all the time because he doesn't have friends or people to hang out with really, my neighbors asked my dad if he would bring him fishing to try and help him meet new people, otherwise he stays inside all day. After hearing this I was wondering how I could go about meeting him and trying to be his friend. Problem is I'm a little anti-social myself >.> and I'm pretty sure we don't have the same interests. On top of that I'm not good at meeting new people, it's always awkward and I don't know what to say. Any suggestions of what I can do to go about this :)

Fiance told me he would dump me if i don't lose weight?

If he is that concerned about your weight then he really doesn't love you. When you love someone you should love them for who they are and not what they look like. I would really look at your relationship and make sure that this is something that you want to do because it is a big step just to find out you made a mistake. Good Luck!

Piano Concerto for a Competition?

You are not ready for a large romantic concerto. They are all long and difficult. Mozart concertos are also quite difficult as they require a lot of refinement. Don't waste your time.

Classical violin pieces?

it sounds like you're a fairly advanced player. if i were you, i would look at the bach suites. many publishers have books that have all six suites in them, so all you have to do is find one. they may be a little too easy, but they should provide some good material for you to play over the summer. hope this helps!!!

Why does my husband find me more attractive (10 points)?

my husband and i are 27 have been married for 2 years. last year i was thin and went to the gym a few times a week and my husband and i had a good sex life and cuddled often. now i got a promotion at my job and i have been working more, so i guess i havent been able to work out and started eating more and i guess "let myself go" so i have gained some weight in the past year. so now im chubby. you would think he would be less attracted to me but he seems more into me and its like he cant keep his hands off of me. all he wants to do is cuddle and we have sex even more than we did when i was thin when we hug and kiss he likes to grab onto my rolls or love handles. like yesterday when he got back from work (he is a sports writer btw) we hugged and kissed and he put his arms around me and started squeezing and grabbing my fat. at first i felt really uncomfortable with him touching me, but after awile i was ok with it. i do have bigger breasts and a bigger butt now, so maybe thats why he is more attracted to me. i would get it is was chubby before and lost weight and then was more attracted to me, but i dont get it with this scenario. i know im his wife and he will always love me but you can love something and not be attracted to it like after my older sister had her baby she had gained 40 pounds because of her pregnancy and she told me that recently her husband could not even look at her. if it helps answer the question he is a big guy and has been oveweight since the day i met him

What kind of bird did this woman have?

When i was like.... 7? this old woman had 2 birds so pretty and colorful i wanted some now these were 7 years old and the size of a full grown mouse ( not rat a mouse the small one ) one was yellow with a white chest and the other was blue with a white chest and they looked chubby and fluffy and they made cute tweet sounds :D

I wrote a poem. will you c/c?

I love it. Very creative, great play on words, and it tells a story. The words flow and start a story that has a great ending. And you can tell that the whole story is much longer than just the short description. Excellent writing. Well done.

What's a good training programme for a triathlon?

run! dont worry about the biking to much but do a whole bunch of laps in the pool. for running dont go for speed but distance. make sure you have a nice bike and jammers for swimming

Could I make it into a good music conservatory?

I think you should give it a bit more feeling but you are definatly good! I hope you get into a great college.

Is cycling good to build up leg muscles?

I am a bit unfit at the moment and walking any distance makes my legs ache. Would cycling help to build up my leg muscles? I would like to get a bit fitter as we will be walking a lot when I go on holiday in August.

Is it weird for me to go out with a guy who's kinda chubby?

I don't mind but I just wanna know what other people think. I'm really thin and short and he's a lil taller than me but he's kinda chubby. I'm not judging tho cause he's really sweet I just want people's opinion.

Is here any violinists who can just imagine playing Tchaikovsky: violin concerto op.35?

When I was a young flutist, I had recordings of sonatas and concertos that inspired me to improve enough so that I could play them. I think its a good thing to have performance goals that you set for yourself. They push you to be a better musician

Why do people put so much emphasis on IQ and intellect?

It annoys me so much there are so many different types of intelligence e.g. Creative, Emotional, and social. but people seem to think that a high IQ is the end all. I have a average IQ, yet i have grade 8 Piano, Grade 6 theory working for 8, and am good at composing, therefore I have a high creative intelligence, but no one seems to appreciate these skills in the same way as a high IQ, I mean is it really that great if you can solve a complex math formula, i cant but what I can do is write a chromatic fugue, write a concerto etc. My view is that music touches the the soul in a way that intellect can't and for that reason i wouldn't change myself in the slightest. A famous scientist when asked what would he show an alien race, he answered the complete works of Bach, Einstein himself said that creativity is more important than knowledge. Let me go bach to bach they predicted his IQ is 165 if think that is wrong, I think that his IQ was about 100 to 110, but his creative intelligence was very high, there is also some evidence that he may of been slightly autistic. But what I am trying to get at is why is there a Superiority around have a high IQ everybody is different and have different strengths and weaknesses, what do you guys think?

Can yahooanswers affect my future?

i just looked over some of my question and answers on yahoo, and it turns out i've had a yahoo answers since i was like 10, and i used to be kind of obnoxious, asking the most unfit questions, and some answers weren't always so polite, anyway i'm 17 now and in a year, i'll be in the real world, trying to get into college, and getting real jobs, could employers find my yahoo answers and like hate me, or even others that know me or something, there's not a way to delete them, i don't want this to affect the way people see me in the future.

So Im 18 and never had a girlfriend so....?

recently Ive turned 18 and have never had a girlfriend, the girls I have liked are either out of my league or I have had the feeling they like me but i didn't have the guts to ask them out ( which i regret but when it comes to that point Im just afraid they might say no and the relationship will be awkward and will not be as good friends) Im average in almost every way Im skinny but not to fit not unfit either, not attractive but i dont consider my self unattractive,not overly geeky but I love my video games,also i dont want this to make me sound depressed and emo im a normal guy for every intents and purposes and Im nice but shy until I have spent a fair amount of time with someone.... At the moment I have no one im intrested in at the moment but I really do love a good romance movie, or in my games :P and everytime ive found a girl I like its prettymuch been love at first sight. Im very mature for my age as I am alot like my Dad who has been a strict parent but for good reasons, so im not into going to nightclubs and that sort of crap im not very social either but will go out with mates. Im not looking for sympathy just tips on over coming my 'shyness" you could say and also confronting women. Thank you to those who read this all and those that give answers even the stupid ones :P

Why does my husband find me more attractive (10 points)?

my husband and i are 27 have been married for 2 years. last year i was thin and went to the gym a few times a week and my husband and i had a good sex life and cuddled often. now i got a promotion at my job and i have been working more, so i guess i havent been able to work out and started eating more and i guess "let myself go" so i have gained some weight in the past year. so now im chubby. you would think he would be less attracted to me but he seems more into me and its like he cant keep his hands off of me. all he wants to do is cuddle and we have sex WAY more often than when i was thin .when we hug and kiss he likes to grab onto my rolls or love handles. like yesterday when he got back from work (he is a sports writer btw) we hugged and kissed and he put his arms around me and started squeezing and grabbing my fat. at first i felt really uncomfortable with him touching me, but after awile i was ok with it. i do have bigger breasts, a bigger butt, and i a much more curvy figure now, so maybe thats why he is more attracted to me. i would get it is was chubby before and lost weight and then was more attracted to me, but i dont get it with this scenario. i know im his wife and he will always love me but you can love something and not be attracted to it like after my older sister had her baby she had gained 40 pounds because of her pregnancy and she told me that recently her husband could not even look at her :(. if it helps answer the question he is a big guy and has been oveweight since the day i met him